Before you have a good husband, you can have a good family.
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what is a man's greatest happiness?
some people say that it is not to have money or live in a big house, but to marry a good wife and spend the whole life hand in hand.
Goethe also said: he who can find peace in his family is the happiest.
it is true. Back home, is a person's most real appearance, the most reassuring time.
but many people ignore that things in the world are mutual, and so are love and understanding.
the premise of having a good wife is to be a good husband.
the premise of a good family is to take the responsibility of starting a family.
the attitude towards his wife is the best temperature in the family.
A date with Luyu has invited the famous director Ang Lee.
during the interview, Lu Yu asked, "what is your greatest happiness at this stage?"
Ang Lee thought for a moment and replied with a smile:
"if my wife can smile at me, I will relax a little and I will feel very happy.
just because I became a father and a husband does not mean that I can naturally get their respect.
you have to come every day to earn their respect, you have to meet a certain standard, because this is one of the reasons why I am not slack off. "
this remark has been praised by many netizens after it has been circulated on the Internet.
as the saying goes: some marriages are like oranges, which peel off is sweet.
some marriages are like coconuts, looking at the big shell outside, but there is no sweetness inside.
I am the only one who knows best about it.
and this subtle taste is often the embodiment of a family temperature.
in a marital relationship, the attitude of the husband towards his wife largely determines the temperature of the home.
after walking through firewood, rice, oil and salt together, having experienced the trivialities of life together, and being able to take care of them as carefully as they did at first sight, is the best appearance of marriage.
not long ago, the relationship between Qin Hailu and her husband Wang Xinjun moved many people in the variety show "my wife's Romantic Journey."
they have been married for seven years. Every day as long as Wang Xinjun is at home, when Qin Hailu goes out, Wang Xinjun will walk her out and tell her, "it's all right, it's all right. I have a husband."
No matter how late Qin Hailu usually comes home, Wang Xinjun will wait for her to come back and give her a full sense of security.
his wife doesn't like doing housework, so Wang Xinjun does all the housework; when his wife is hungry in the middle of the night, Wang Xinjun immediately goes to get her food.
being kind to your wife, giving her understanding and tolerance is an integral part of the way couples get along.
"raising a wife" to make her secure and secure is an essential part of family harmony.
Family harmony, you only have the strength to work hard outside, and there is a family that can cure even the most difficult days.
being good to your wife is the best investment in a man's life.
the pattern of dealing with family affairs is the best education for children
Mr. Cai Yuanpei wrote a very profound sentence in "the cultivation of the Chinese people":
the influence of the original family on people is mostly deep in the bone marrow.
I have seen a netizen tell his own experience before.
her mother-in-law died of cancer less than half a year after she and her husband were married. When my mother-in-law was alive, my father-in-law often drank and played cards, never meddled in family affairs, and occasionally dealt with family affairs.
she often heard her husband mention his father-in-law when he was young: "when something happens, he will criticize his wife and abuse his children at the same time."
when I am in a lot of debt, I just hide out and drink and let my wife figure out a way to solve the mess. "
later, just a month after my mother-in-law fell ill and died, my father-in-law remarried.
when the husband heard the news, he broke off with his father-in-law in anger, and from then on, the husband seemed to be a different person.
from then on, whenever her husband's temper came up, she would be furious and moody regardless of her mood.
after she became pregnant, as her belly got bigger and bigger, her husband became more and more impatient, complaining that he always got up at night to disturb his rest and complained that his cooking was not as good as it used to be.
until one day, the husband pointed at himself and cursed for a long time after drinking, and then left the pregnant man by the side of the road.
it was only at that moment that she realized that she was very much like her mother-in-law when she was alive, and that her husband was very much like his father-in-law, whom he hated.
there is an old saying that the father's pattern is the best feng shui for a family.
only when men learn to be a good husband, can they learn to be a good father, and then pass on this good family style from generation to generation.
when dealing with family affairs, quit being emotional and calm, so that there will be more laughter at home instead of scattered sand.
when solving problems, no longer escape, can be treated rationally, children can get the best words and deeds to teach, learn the value of love.
A calm husband, a considerate and gentle wife, and a healthy child are the happiest appearance of a family.
facing the responsibility of the family is the best blessing for the family.
there is a question on Zhihu: what is the true meaning of marriage to a family?
A high praise replied: even in the most difficult days, because someone is with you to share the burden, tide over the difficulties together and become a safe haven for each other.
the value of marriage is reflected in the darkness of life.
as said in the first half of my Life: because life is difficult, we need a person to be in the same boat.
but in reality, for someAs far as people are concerned, it is cruel.
in more and more families, the wife is the only one who carries the wind and rain, and the wife is also the one who cleans up the trifles.
A day in the South Korean TV series "confessing couples" shows the most real state of countless families.
the woman was alone at home with the baby. After going to the bathroom for a while, the child kept crying outside the door, so she had to take the baby to the bathroom together.
the child finally fell asleep. She hurried to eat. As soon as the meal was delivered to her mouth, the child woke up. She could only coax the child and eat at the same time.
because of holding the baby for a long time and straining his wrist, he had to endure the pain and continue to take care of the child after changing the plaster.
the child suddenly fell ill late at night and called her husband several times but went unanswered, while the husband on the other end of the phone was talking and laughing in the wine bureau.
in desperation, she had no choice but to cry while taking the child to the hospital and wearing the wrong shoes in a panic.
I finally got in touch with my husband, but there were only a few faint words: "I'm not coming back tonight."
in this world, no one's efforts are taken for granted, even those closest to them are the same.
Marriage is not a person's business, and family is not a person's responsibility.
the efforts of one person can never support the marriage of two people.
if you just want to be the one who takes shelter from the wind, how can the so-called harbor be safe and sound?
only by relying on each other, taking on every responsibility and protecting every family can we get the old saying:
husband and wife are of one heart and one mind.
A good husband leads to a good family
Tu Lei mentioned in the program:
as a man, you don't have to be romantic, but you must have a sense of responsibility.
you must not be able to earn a lot of money, but you must be able to support your family.
you don't always listen to your parents, but you must be filial.
all this is actually telling us that no matter how much money a man has, he may not be able to do so today or tomorrow.
the real skill is that every day a door is open and a light is on for you. "
you will have the same marriage as you treat your wife;
you will have the same family as you treat your marriage;
you will have the same kind of life as you treat your family.
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the road of life, the choice is in their own hands, what kind of cause, will bear what kind of fruit.
to be a good husband and marry a good wife, this trip of life can be regarded as live up to.