Forget (good text in depth)

Life has a long way to go, and everyone is stumbling forward.

there are sufferings, laughter, setbacks and surprises along the way.

just like flowers blossom and fall, everything is providence.

is like a saying on the Internet:

therefore, nothing can not be put down or forgotten.

instead of worrying about it, it is better to forget the obsession.

as a human being, only by freeing the heart can life be freer.

01

forgetfulness is a kind of wisdom

it has been said: "as long as it is a human being, no one can live a life without annoyance."

that's true.

when we are young, we worry about our studies.

when we grow up, we worry about our livelihood.

when we are in the middle of our lives, we worry about our children.

in short, it is an endless worry and worry. As Li Bai said in his poems, the white hair has grown to three thousand feet long, which is why it is so long because of sorrow.

but you know what?

99% of the troubles in life are self-inflicted.

because I can't let go of my obsession, it becomes more and more painful, and because I can't forget my inner desire, I get more and more entangled.

in fact, life is a passer-by, so there is no need for thousands of knot.

if you can forget your troubles and let your heart take it easy, your life will be natural and broad.

it's like climbing a mountain, only by throwing away the extra baggage and going to battle easily can you climb to the top of the mountain and see the most beautiful scenery.

therefore, don't worry about being a man, it will be annoying; don't worry about it, you'll be tired if you care.

only by being a forgetful person and forgetting your troubles can you live calmly and freely.

as the saying goes, if you have nothing to worry about, it is a good time for the world.

Life is short, please learn not to worry about trifles, not to worry about the past, then you will find that today is another beautiful day!

remember: prosperous 3000, bearish is cloud and smoke.

02

forgetfulness is a kind of freedom

as the old saying goes: too forgetful.

it means that you should not be moved or disturbed by emotions.

however, the reality is that people are always ruthlessly annoyed in their whole life.

because I care too much about a person, I worry too much; because I can't forget a relationship, I don't think about tea and rice.

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Learning will not give up and let go, so life is naturally full of burdens.

once read a Zen story.

A sufferer asked the Zen master for help: "Master, I can't let go of some things, can't let go of some people, so it's very painful."

the Zen master said, "there is nothing that cannot be put down."

the sufferer said, "but I just can't let it go."... "

so the Zen master asked him to hold a teacup, and he kept adding hot water to it until it overflowed.

the sufferer is scalded to release immediately.

at this time, the Zen master said, "there is nothing in this world that cannot be let go. If it hurts, you will naturally let it go."

the same should be true of life.

there are too many demands to bother us. Only by learning to forget is the way to be good.

as Zhuangzi said, "it is better to forget each other than to help each other."

most of the time, as long as you try and try your best, it will be enough.

sometimes you have to have it in your life, but don't force it all the time.

for those who can't get it, forget the best; for those who can't win, it's good to be bearish.

when you go with fate, heaven and earth are wide.

03

ecstasy is a kind of realm

famous performing artist Ying Ruocheng once told a story.

he was born into a big family, and dozens of people sit together every time he eats.

once, he had a whim and decided to play a joke on everyone.

so before dinner, he hid in an unnoticed cupboard in the dining room, thinking that he would jump out when people couldn't find him.

but awkwardly, no one noticed his absence until everyone finished eating and left.

at last, he had to wilt out and eat the leftover soup and cold dishes.

this incident made him understand that people should not take themselves too seriously, overestimating their own weight will only add to their troubles.

as the saying goes, "if a man can empty himself to travel around the world, which one can harm him."

to be a man, you can be calm because you are not complacent and know the importance, and you can be at ease precisely because you are not self-conscious and understand the depth.

thus it can be seen that in this world of right and wrong, selflessness in a low profile is the wisest way for a person to deal with the world.

only when you let go of your ego can you be at ease for the rest of your life!

04

in life, every stage has its troubles.

what matters is whether you can let yourself go.

to forget sorrow, life is naturally relaxed and happy;

to forget the remaining feelings, the heart must be free;

to forget the ego, life can make great strides forward.

as the Buddhist sutra says, "there are troubles every day, but if you don't pick them up, you won't have them!"

what happens in the world is just a thought.

only by being open-minded and belittling everything, can you and I travel light.