If the pattern is bigger, life will go smoothly.

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what is the big pattern

pattern is the breadth and vastness of one's spiritual world.

refers to a person's far-sighted vision, magnanimity and mind, taking into account the sense of mission and responsibility of the public interest;

can have courage and wisdom that ordinary people do not have. can gladly accept the best gifts of life, but also accept the worst arrangements in life, never complain about the attitude of life. There is a proverb that is particularly vivid: no matter how big a pancake is, it is not as big as the pot in which it is burned.

you can make a cake, but no matter how big the cake is, it will be limited by that pot.

the future we hope for is just like this big cake, whether it can make a satisfactory "big cake" depends entirely on the "pot" in which it is branded.

this is called "pattern".

at work, people with large patterns know how to ignore their personal emotions, look at the whole thing from a higher standpoint, and devote more energy to improving their ability and performance.

emotionally, people with a large pattern will understand that feelings are only a part of life and will no longer be entangled with painstaking trifles.

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when the pattern becomes larger, life will go smoothly

all our pain is not the pain itself, but those who cannot see through, think through, and explain the problems of life.

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to sum up, even if the pattern is not enough, most of your pain comes from it.

our Chinese characters skillfully embody such a truth: a person standing on a mountain is looking at the magnificence of the stars, the vastness of heaven and earth, and a long-term vision, so he is "immortal";

A person standing in a valley is committed to the bottom of the valley, and his eyes are trivial, narrow and limited, so he is a "vulgar".

as long as you have a certain pattern, you can first "see yourself" and understand your own strengths and weaknesses;

then "see heaven and earth" and see clearly the vastness of heaven and earth and your own smallness, you will be able to live a small life smoothly. The pattern of

often determines how high we can see and how far we can go.

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change yourself, raise the pattern

raise the height of the goal

A person's goal is to live a different life, whether it is trivial or starry.

when setting a goal, set the maximum value that can be achieved.

never confine your goal to a small, present world, but dare to embrace a broader, higher and farther world.

increase the breadth of knowledge

if you want to improve your knowledge, read more, ask for advice from excellent people, and talk to people with depth.

with more knowledge and knowledge reserves, we can naturally talk eloquently.

raise the depth of cognition

shallow people are more frightening than ignorant people.

if you want to increase your depth, you should not only look at it more, but also think from multiple angles.

the same phenomenon is seen by others as superficial lively, and you can see the problems reflected behind it. Learn to think dialectically and not explain everything with simple right and wrong. Ask a few more questions about why, and you will always see the nature of the problem, establish a sound cognitive system of thinking, and know how to solve the problem.

people who really have a pattern are often those who can see both the trees and the forest.

know how to look forward

on the road of life, the best way is to look forward.

A person who is always addicted to the past is doomed not to go far away.

you can hold as big a boat as you have in mind, and you can write out the ending as much as you have in mind.