Love yourself for a life you can't start over.
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some people say that 2021 is a cherished year, and there are too many unexpected clutches.
persistent epidemic situation, sudden torrential rain, everything unknown.
remind us all the time that things change and hope to cherish. Take the road ahead and cherish the people in front of you.
you can't start all over again. In the rest of your life, I hope you can love what you love and do what you do.
Today is better than yesterday, tomorrow is better than today.
Don't panic, just work
in the past, there have been many such moments:
when I saw other people's promotions and raises, I stopped, envied and panicked;
I saw others looking at the world chic, but I was still struggling and anxious to make a living.
for fear that he will be half a beat slower than others and will not be able to catch up with others.
but in fact, everyone in the world has his or her own pace and pace of growth.
some people graduate at the age of 22, but wait five years to find a job;
some people become CEO at the age of 25, but die at the age of 50;
others succeed in starting a business at the age of 50 and leave the world at the age of 90.
everyone has their own time zone and never compare with others.
Don't put your feet in other people's shoes, and don't write your own life according to other people's plays.
Life is not a 100-meter sprint, but a marathon.
it is better to run fast than to run steadily and for a long time.
Dear yourself, from today on, stop worrying, grasp your own rhythm, and try your best to do the task at hand.
work steadily and silently one step at a time.
Don't rely on yourself. On the way of life, you will inevitably encounter setbacks, challenges and storms.
in these difficult times, I always expected others to pull me out of the quagmire.
later I found out that in the adult world, everyone is a clay Bodhisattva, and it is difficult to protect himself, let alone expect others to cross you.
people live on their own after all.
as the writer Brecht said:
relying on mountains, water and water, and running by everyone, only by yourself is the most secure and secure.
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Dear yourself, from today on, don't pin your hopes on others, don't expect someone to lean on you, and don't wait for someone to hold an umbrella for you.
the road under your feet, walk by yourself; do the thing at hand by yourself;
carry the pain in front of you; the dream in your heart is fulfilled by yourself.
I hope you know that no matter how comfortable the copilot is, it is better to hold on to your steering wheel.
only by laying down the rivers and mountains by ourselves and earning the strength, can we live a hard life and walk sonorously.
only by making your own sun can you bloom brilliantly without borrowing the light of others.
Don't complain, believe that you
once complained that life was hard when you were frustrated;
blamed God for not caring for you when you didn't meet talent, and the world was unfair;
you have complained, blamed others, and even hated yourself when you are full of grievances.
it turns out that complaining is the most useless thing in the world.
the more you complain, the closer your troubles are, and the farther away your happiness is.
nine times out of ten there are unpleasant things in life.
on the road of life, there are moments when everyone is powerless and exhausted.
but all the difficulties and difficulties are only temporary after all.
after night, there will be the dawn of dawn; after wind and rain, there will be a brilliant sun.
so, no matter what you face, no need to complain, please believe that everything is the best arrangement.
Dear yourself, from today on, no matter how difficult the day is, please smile and be optimistic no matter how hard life is.
all the resentment and hatred end up torturing yourself.
instead of wasting time complaining, it's better to keep your feet on the ground and change.
believe in yourself and use your efforts to turn grievances into strength.
Don't be impetuous, precipitate yourself
look back on the days you have passed, and find that you have a lot of impetuous spirit.
everything is hot for three minutes, impatient and easy to get impatient.
in my work, I always want to see great achievements at once, and I will be restless if I don't see the results in the short term.
feel confused about the future, dissatisfied with the status quo, but unable to calm down to make a change.
even often expect to become famous overnight, delusional that they can become rich overnight.
eager for success, instead of success, eager for quick success, on the contrary, failed.
the more anxious you are, the easier it is to get off track.
in an impetuous society, those who are calm win, and those who make up their minds get things done.
people can move forward calmly only by shielding themselves from the noise of the outside world and dispelling their inner anxiety.
Dear myself, in the days to come, calm down, move forward steadily, calm down, and try to settle down.
all the strength you save today will surely make you a better person tomorrow.
Don't be disappointed. Cherish the people around you
the saddest thing in life is that you don't know how to cherish it when you have it, and you don't regret it until it's too late.
in the past, I always thought that the people around me would never leave no matter how they were treated.
so you always ignore it intentionally or unintentionally, and ignore it without scruples.
sometimes turn a blind eye to their emotions, sometimes turn a deaf ear to their words, and sometimes take their efforts for granted.
and often naively think that as the days go by, there will be no difference between tomorrow and today.
but forget that if it is a person, it will be disappointed, it will be heart, it will be hurt.
when the heart is disappointed again and again, enthusiasm is consumed over and over again.
No matter how hot the heart is, it will be cold, and no matter how deep the love is, it will be yellow.
between people, meeting each other is lucky, and having it is even more blessed.
in the days when we are lucky enough to travel together, only when we live up to our expectations and do not hurt can we have more happiness and fulfillment and less regrets and regrets.
Dear yourself, from now on, don't let down every affection, don't treat every heart badly.
Don't save the worst for the one you love the most, and don't save the best for last.
cherish every relationship and treat everyone around you with your heart.
Don't please, love yourself
in the past, pay for this, sacrifice for that, would rather be aggrieved than take care of others.
in the end, instead of winning the favor of others, I made myself physically and mentally exhausted.
have experienced too much harm, swallowed too many grievances, and finally understand:
people are alive, it is better to be kind to themselves than to please others.
after all, in this world, you are the only one who can accompany you to the end.
there is a good saying: to please others is only clever, to make yourself happy is great wisdom.
the most important thing in a person's life is to live for himself.
Dear yourself, from now on, don't keep a low profile and try every means to please anyone, don't try your best to cater to anyone.
Don't oppress and embarrass yourself for things that are not worth it, and don't injure and humiliate yourself for people who are not worth it.
use the energy to please others to be kind to yourself and the energy to accommodate others to nourish yourself.
whenever you love yourself, it is the most cost-effective investment.
Love it is a blessing to be loved, and it is duty to love yourself.
whenever you want to put yourself first in the order of your life.
in any case, please learn to love conditionally and love yourself unconditionally.
May you first buy yourself flowers when no one sends you flowers;
May you live to be your own eaves when no one gives you an umbrella;
May you enjoy three meals a day and enjoy every morning dusk when no one is with you to ask if your porridge is warm.