Beautiful morning light, accompany you to read.
as the saying goes, "A man should marry and a woman should marry."
Marriage is a problem that most people have to face, but "men are afraid of entering the wrong profession and women are afraid of marrying the wrong man." it becomes particularly important to choose whom to marry.
whether a woman is happy in marriage depends to a large extent on what kind of family she marries.
if you marry right, everyone will be happy for the rest of your life; if you marry wrong, your whole life will be miserable.
therefore, before a woman gets married, she should not only consider the feelings of both parties, but also must not ignore the family behind him.
these four families should never marry. It seems realistic, but every word is reasonable.
families whose parents do not agree with each other
saw a passage that day and felt deeply:
the most important thing for a woman before getting married is not to know this man, but to know this man's family. Children in disharmonious families are more likely to develop some degree of distortion in their hearts.
most of the time, the way each other's parents get along is what you will look like after marriage.
netizens @ San have a harmonious family and loving parents, while their boyfriends have lived in endless quarrels and quarrels with each other since childhood, and their parents have not divorced after quarreling for most of their lives.
when the two first fell in love, his boyfriend also talked about his family. He looked down on his father, nodded and bowed and came home domineering, throwing all his temper on the people closest to him.
the boyfriend is well aware that this kind of behavior is wrong and absurd, and he tries very hard to build his outlook on life in the opposite direction to his father.
at first, @ San thought her boyfriend was no different from ordinary people, even more diligent, gentle and careful than most people around her.
the longer you can get along with each other, the more you can see his father in your boyfriend.
after he was repeatedly stood up by his companions in the competition, he could still keep his demeanor in a belly of anger, but his tone became impatient when he got home, which could trigger a "family war" every minute.
the blogger was originally pleased to be able to become a boyfriend who was willing to take off his disguise, but it was not until similar events occurred frequently that she realized that
can not be changed by her own efforts, and some personalities are brought from her bones and are difficult to change.
the famous family therapist Virginia Satya once said:
"A person is inextricably linked to his original family, and this connection may affect him for the rest of his life."
Get prepared to purchase the alluring one shoulder a line gown for wedding and have everyone looking at you. Find your favorite and it will remain its fashion look over time.
when women get married, they must look at the relationship between each other's parents.
if he has lived in an unhappy family since childhood, he is lack of love, self-confidence, and even perverse personality.
if you cannot accept the influence of his original family, timely understanding and communication will inevitably lead to numerous disputes in the relationship.
families with too big family differences
in Grimm's Fairy Tales, Cinderella lived happily ever after with the prince.
but fairy tales are fairy tales after all. In reality, marriages with excessive differences in family conditions are generally difficult to survive.
in the TV series "the temptation to go Home", Hong Shixian is a rich and aristocratic family. Lin Pinru's parents are both ordinary workers, and the combination of the two, in anyone's eyes, is like the ascension of the Hong family.
although Lin Pinru tries her best to be a good wife after marriage, she can't change her mother-in-law's dislike of her.
at first, Hong Shixian would speak for his wife, and over time, he was on the same side as his mother.
in life, there are many women who dream of marrying into a wealthy family, once and for all.
but as the saying goes, "all the gifts of fate have already been secretly priced."
two people with different levels will still have all kinds of problems after the freshness.
overcoming the family gap requires husband and wife to work together and move forward together on the same channel.
when Guo Jingjing, a diver, married into a wealthy family, the media often denigrated her background.
but Guo Jingjing calmly replied: "he is a big family, I am the champion." There are many big clubs, but there is only one champion. "
the opportunity for their love is that Huo Qigang was attracted by Guo Jingjing's heroic posture when she dived. The honor of this "diving queen" was earned by Guo Jingjing after more than 20 years of hard work.
in the face of Huo Qigang's halo of a famous school, Guo Jingjing has no inferiority complex. She chose to continue her studies and refine herself after retirement.
good love is mutual appreciation, and good marriage should be neck and neck.
two people can come together, the appearance is the ticket, the door is the platform, the final step is the way of lasting business.
if you take a shortcut because of youth and appearance, but there is nothing to match it, then once you lose your external attachment, happiness is like a leaf of duckweed.
those girls who succeed in "counterattack" often understand that only if they are neither humble nor arrogant, and continue to grow, can they win their own dignity and confidence, and make their lives better and better.
families who always want to have a say
some time ago, there was an uproar on the Internet that the groom was rejected for buying the wrong underwear.
according to the local custom, the husband should give the woman a first gift before the wedding to ensure that the bride is new from head to toe.
but on the day of the reception, the woman found that she had bought too little underwear and immediately informed the man, but the man's response was: just wear an old one.
the two families negotiated without success, and finally broke up in discord, one did not marry, the other did not marry.
at first, the big guy accused the woman of making a mountain out of a molehill, accepted the bride price, but got married.I was looking for something on the day of the gift.
but as more and more details are exposed, many netizens say "lucky in misfortune".
it turns out that the woman has told the man the size a long time ago, and all the other clothes fit, except this underwear is very small.
and in the local area, it also implies "deliberately giving the woman a hard time".
the bride later responded:
"what netizens see is only a piece of underwear, but this is not the case. it is a matter of mutual respect between husband and wife."
those families who always want to put pressure on each other will often ask you to bow your head and make more sacrifices for your family. If you will marry, you will truly jump into the "fire pit".
to judge whether a man is worth marrying, you can tell by the communication attitude of his family.
if you find that each other's family is always trying to win or lose, or get away as soon as possible.
after all, in our daily life, we will encounter more places that need running-in and communication.
if both parties cannot understand and tolerate each other, then the marriage is not destined to be happy and long-lasting.