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what you are with
I don't know if you find that we usually become the kind of people we have around us.
although it is absolute, I have to admit that the people around you, their personalities, habits and emotions will affect you to a great extent.
as a scientist once said, "Man is the only animal that can accept cues."
We are always imperceptibly influenced or influenced by the people around us.
for example, when the people around you are diligent and studious, you will be driven to make progress and work hard.
but when people around you are eager for comfort, even if you want to be diligent and studious, you will gradually lose motivation and perseverance.
for example, when the people around you are positive, even if you are pessimistic and negative, you will gradually become positive and sunny.
but when the people around you are full of negative energy, no matter how positive you are, you will continue to be consumed.
if a person wants to be better, the circle around him is very important.
after all, you almost choose the way to spend your life with what kind of person you choose to be with.
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stay away from lazy people get close to hard-working people
there is a passage that once said, "with diligent people, you will not be lazy." When you are with positive people, you will not be depressed. Walk with a wise man and you will be extraordinary. If you keep company with great people, you can reach the top. "
many times, whether a person chooses to be with someone who works hard or who is lazy almost determines his future and destiny.
maybe being with hard-working people will make you feel a little pressure, because when the people around you are studious, self-disciplined and excellent, you will drive and even force you to make progress.
maybe it makes you feel comfortable with lazy people, because when people around you are spending time watching TV shows, shopping, and playing games, it's harder for you to make up your mind to change yourself.
in fact, there are many people around us who are constantly making progress, and at the same time, there are also a lot of people who are muddling around.
whenever you choose circles and friends, be sure to ask yourself what kind of person you want to be.
if you want to be better, try to get close to people who are more worthy of your study.
stay away from the people who consume you
get close to the people who bring you positive energy
are there any friends around you:
they like to complain about everything, either the hard work or the hardship of life, the bad feelings or the bad mood.
maybe complain once in a while, but it doesn't matter. After all, everyone needs emotional outlet and appropriate comfort and relief.
but people who always complain, complain every day, complain every month, complain all the time, they are not having a bad life, but they are in a bad state of mind.
none of adult life is easy.
sometimes, people who seem to be better off than you don't have everything going well, but they just know how not to compete, not to entangle, and not to pass on their negative energy to others at will.
conversely, people who seem to be living a bad life are not really having a bad life, but they always torture themselves and annoy others with bigger things.
We should try to stay away from those who continue to consume you, and look for people who bring you positive energy.
when you are with people with positive energy, you will feel that every day is alive, full of vitality and hope.
when you are with positive people, their sunny and upward attitude towards life will make you happier, better, and love life more.
when you are with positive people, their optimism and openness will gradually make you have a better state of mind and face all kinds of troubles and pains.
you have to be who you want to be
We all want to be with better people, but unless you become better yourself, you can attract more good people.
if you are an unmotivated person, you will only attract people who are equally mediocre. If you are a complainer, you will only attract people who complain as much. If you are a broken person, even a positive person will avoid it.
so, in addition to trying to find the best people you can get close to, at the same time, we should try to become the group of people you want to be close to.
as the saying goes, "birds of a feather flock together."
when you become more diligent, positive and upward, you will also attract such people, but conversely, you will become negative, lazy and procrastinating.
sometimes, when we are having a bad time, we should not only reflect on the people we are close to, but also reflect on our words and deeds.
when we constantly improve ourselves and the people we live in, we will become better and better.
May you be a better yourself and meet better people for the rest of your life. May you have a better life with good people.