Let go of other people's mistakes and free your own heart

the bitterness of life lies in persistence; the difficulty in life lies in letting go.

as the saying goes, when you think of heaven, you think of hell.

Let go of other people's mistakes, what you get is the liberation of the heart.

if you struggle with resentment, all you get is endless torture.

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the worst thing in the world is to punish yourself for other people's mistakes.

the most painful thing in life is not the harm given by others, but the bondage that you give to yourself.

the more you experience, the more you understand that in the second half of life, more and more is the age, and the shorter is the time.

nine times out of ten, life is not satisfactory. But entanglement for a long time will only consume the present.

Oscar Wilde once said:

heard a story:

A professor at Harvard University picked up a cup of water and asked the students:

"guess how heavy this cup is."

"50 grams", "100 grams" and "125 grams", everyone answered with a lot of tongues.

"I don't know how heavy it is, but I'm sure I don't feel tired with it at all."

the professor said, "now, my question is, what happens if I hold it like this for a few minutes?"

"nothing will happen." Answer, everyone.

"all right. What happens if you hold it like this for an hour? " The professor asked again.

"the arms will be a little sore." A student answered.

"that's right. What if I hold it like this all day? "

"that arm is bound to become numb, and maybe the muscles will cramp, so it's inevitable to go to the hospital." Another student said boldly.

"very good. Will the weight of the cup change while I am holding the cup, regardless of the length of time? "

"No."

"then why is the arm holding the cup sore? Why do muscles cramp? "

the professor paused and asked, "I don't want my arms to get sore and muscle spasms, so what should I do?"

for a moment, everyone was silent.

then a student stood up and replied,

"it's very simple, you should put the cup down."

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in fact, troubles are like cups in our hands. No matter how you cling to him, it will not increase or decrease.

it doesn't matter if you suffer for a few minutes, but if you indulge in other people's mistakes for a long time, it will only erode your mental strength and make you miss out on more important things.

not everything in life is worth worrying about.

Cai Kangyong once said:

to be angry is that someone else has done something stupid, and then we take his place and act like a fool.

some people, as long as they see it clearly, why fall out?

there are some things that you can understand in your heart, so there is no need to delve into it.

Life has always been a mixture of mud and sand, and there are always flowers and thorns on the way to growth.

Zhou Guoping once said:

the dust falls on the body, just brush it off gently. You don't have to squat down and cry, which hinders the way forward.

instead of wrestling with each other, it is better to let your mind go and your life can turn.

02

as the old saying goes:

in this life, we will meet all kinds of people.

everyone has a different life experience, which creates a high or low level.

Haruki Murakami said:

people have different minds, so they have different views on things.

everyone has different self-cultivation, so they have different styles of doing things.

No one can guarantee that he will not make a mistake in his life, and that he will owe no debt to others.

there is a saying in the Great Gatsby:

when you want to criticize others, you should remember that not everyone in the world has your advantages.

on the contrary, when you can let go of other people's imperfections, you will understand the meaning of forgiveness.

there is a saying in Zen:

he who complains in his mouth sees the fault of others. People who emit negative energy all day, good luck will naturally ignore him.

Heart is a mirror. What your heart is, that's what you see in the world.

heard a story:

there was a Zen master who had a complaining disciple. One day, the Zen master put a handful of salt into a glass of water for his disciples to drink.

the disciple said, "it's so salty that it's bitter."

the Zen master sprinkled more salt into the lake and let the disciples taste the lake again.

after drinking, the disciple said, "Pure and sweet."

the reason is very simple, the two patterns are different.

people, looking down from the 20th floor, all they can see is a beautiful day. Looking down from the second floor, all you can see is rubbish all over the floor.

if you lack height in life, all you see are problems.

if there is no pattern in life, what we face is trivial.

the mind changes from the situation, and the state is born from the mind.

Mr. Feng Zikai once said:

it is better to be angry than to be successful. If you swallow the grievances given by others, you can feed your own pattern.

to forgive others is to be generous. To humble yourself is weight. Taken together, it is the quality of a person.

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Cai Kangyong once said:

letting go does not mean forgiveness, but a kind of maturity that is good to yourself.

in the wonderful work, Ma Dong once said:

and Cai Kangyong immediately added

"that's not forgiveness, that's forget it."

Adult life is always full of half understanding and half compromise.

I have read a passage:

I am deeply convinced that I do not have no choice but to do nothing. Instead, I do not force myself or make it difficult for others. Just try my best to be yourself.

No matter how bad something happened yesterday, it should not affect today's mood.

the rest of your life is short, you still have a long way to go, and there are bright stars to see.

save time for the most precious scenery.

Don't easily give up the right to be happy and lose what could have been a better tomorrow for people and things that are not worth it.

the rest of your life is very expensive. May you let go of other people's mistakes and free your heart. Cut off the sadness of the past, reconcile with yourself, and embrace the warmth of the world.