There are four things in life that you can't be frugal.

the older generation is very particular about diligence and frugality. The water for washing vegetables will be saved to flush the toilet and go to bed after dark. If you can turn on one light, you will not turn on two, and leave the unfinished food until you have finished. In the past, I was also afraid of poverty.

our parents always tell us that it is not easy to make money, so we must save money.

there is no doubt that frugality is a virtue, but not all savings are right.

people no longer have money, and don't save money on these four things, otherwise they will become poorer and poorer.

01

if you don't save money on reading, you can't enrich yourself less

Zhu Xi said: "for the way of learning, do not precede poor reason; the most important thing for poor reason is to read."

Reading is to seek knowledge and reason, jump out of the limitations of cognition, and look at things from another height, so as to be superior to yourself in the past.

and the most important thing to invest in yourself is to invest in your own spiritual world. Spiritual abundance is better than thousands of flashy things in the world.

everyone's time is limited, the agitation and spark of ideas in the book can quickly nourish us, and the money spent on reading is the most cost-effective investment.

Mr. Shen Congwen is from Xiangxi, his family is poor, and he does not have the material conditions to make additional investment in his future.

what he can do is to spend a small amount of money on reading, enrich his inner body and increase his knowledge.

the money spent on reading didn't put a financial burden on him, but lit up his way forward.

High-level people never save money on reading, because reading is the lowest-cost investment and the nobility with the lowest threshold.

the greatest significance of reading is to make you say "the world is worth it" when you sigh your life many years later, instead of just complaining about "life is really hard".

02

do not save money on health, health investment can not be less

life is only a hundred years of loess.

No matter whether they are rich or poor, they are all floating clouds. No matter how important the money is, you must have a life to spend.

in the Outer History of the Scholars, there is a rich man named Yan Jiansheng.

Yan Jiansheng's family of four are reluctant to buy a kilo of meat; they have unbearable heartache, and they have to settle accounts until the third shift; when their illness gets worse, they are reluctant to buy ginseng to replenish their qi.

his death from a serious illness was entirely his own fault, and the loss outweighed his gain in order to save money and neglect his health.

the older generation often say that the body is the capital of revolution.

Don't save money on health investment, because when you get to the hospital, the money is worthless.

Fitness exercise can not be stopped, money should be spent, daily diet should not be stingy, meat and vegetables should be bought, hospital physical examination should not be less, prevention should be taken, and medicine should be taken.

Don't take money too seriously and yourself too lightly in front of your body.

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remember, your body is fragile and valuable, and it's hard to live a bad life wherever you go.

those who save a little money and suffer all their lives are the biggest fools in the world.

03

if you don't save money on travel, you can't see less of the world

writer Bi Shumin said: "to understand the world, you must go far away."

Life is only the splendor that comes out, but not the glory that waits for it.

when you are traveling, you can experience more human feelings, see more of the world, and become leisurely, transparent and wise.

just like the poet Li Bai, even in ancient times when the traffic was backward, he had to swim all over the Yangtze River by rowing a small boat and enjoy the mountains and rivers in a chic way. That's why Li Bai was able to know a lot and have an extraordinary realm, thus creating a good sentence that has spread for thousands of years.

people who love to travel are optimistic. If they have seen towering peaks and experienced the tolerance of mountains, rivers and seas, they will not be confined to the joys and sorrows of life, but believe that they can face the ups and downs of life.

people who love to travel are optimistic. They have seen towering peaks and experienced the tolerance of mountains and rivers, so they will not be confined to the joys and sorrows of life. They will not be confined to the joys and sorrows of life, but believe that they can face the ups and downs of life.

save a sum of money every once in a while while it's still too late to travel. Don't wait until you are old and trapped in a sick bed, and then lament the value of freedom and distance.

the benevolent enjoy the mountain, and the wise enjoy the water.

Love between the mountains and rivers, carefree in heaven and earth, can not worry about the past, just want to laugh for the rest of my life.

04

do not save money on human feelings, and reciprocity cannot be reduced.

in Caigen Tan, it is said: "when things fall short, human feelings begin to grow."

in daily life, ask acquaintances to give convenience, allow each other some benefits, come and go back, is the way to manage human feelings.

you can't take all the benefits. If you think about saving money in the world, you will only destroy the relationship, and it will be yourself who will suffer in the end.

No matter how close it is, one cannot stand irrevocable greed.

No matter how good a relationship is, one cannot stand an overdraft that is taken for granted.

there is a "seesaw law" in psychology, which says that interpersonal communication is essentially a process of exchange, and we should also follow the law of equivalent exchange and mutual benefit.

if people want to live in harmony, they must keep their expenses equal, but if one of them is greedy, he will lose his balance.

if someone gives you help, if you say it is polite and affectionate, but in fact, it will make the other person feel that you take his help cheaply and don't take it to heart.

in interpersonal communication, the money to be spent must be spent, and reciprocity is the best way to get along.

there is a good saying:

the higher the level, the more clear it is: reciprocity is the most reliable.Compare the heart, only long-term love.

there is a famous saying in the Lady of Camellia: money is a good servant but a bad master.

money is for people, but not to satisfy our desires, but to grow.

when you don't save money on reading, health, travel and relationships, you become the master of money.

the more high-level people understand that the most important thing in life is not to find ways to save money, but how to spend it.

some people spend a lot of money, but their quality of life and happiness index have not improved, while others, who do not spend much, seem to be very rich.